And the person who loves wholeheartedly feels free.
In love, no one harm anyone else; we are each of us responsible for our own feelings and can not blame someone else for what we feel.
It hurt when I lost each of the various men I fell in love with. Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone.
That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world, without owning it.
From Maria’s Diary in Paulo Coelho’s novel "Eleven Minutes"